Once an itchy risky bug in my life...

When I am alone thinking of nothing
but my breathing...my mind flashes back to my happy days with the bug.
I could remember we never had any of those sad days. There were times when we just gave a stare at each other while working infront of our puters.
We ran and grabbed a pair of shoes to play our favorite sports "badminton" during those days on a windy afternoon. (grinss)
Damaged rackets which were not ours been slammed so much at eased.
We took our lunch together outside office, lavishly enjoying the food even when we had it almost everyday.
We have our differences that was never a hindrance to our friendship.
She's more of an outgoing, outspoken bug, while i am more of the quiet type but don't you dare provoke me (smiless).
She's adventurous ... that makes her risky at all times; yet I prefer to read and watch movies.
We shared same values; respect, honesty, kindness to each other. That holds our friendship so tight.
We were never bothered by intrigues ... as we are confident of who we are. We just have our own small ways of telling each other we care.
Time came, the tiny itchy risky bug need to leave. Happy moments were cut in unlikely term. I stood beside the bug, saying goodbye with teary eyes. My heart broke to see her leave coz we'll be missing someone so dear to us.
Now, we're far from each other, surrounded by vast oceans. Yet just a keyboard away (grinss). Intrigues and dramas followed us still in this high technology so called "chatting" in the net (laughs) ... yet our friendship had coped.
We still have that smile and smirk on our face ... while we typed our messages in YM or Pal. We played our games so well more we enjoyed it. Confusing and unbelievable things in cyberspace are, silly they may be they just made us laugh out loud and send our smiley go rolling down the floor - oh so much fun.
Everything just come and go in the net .... (this we know) but never a good friend is given up by heart.
A tiny- itchy risky bug still lurks in the dark flapping, stinging , waiting for her victims feelings ; don't you dare mess around with her or you will end up a bug yourself (LOL). She is lovingly contagious and a high maintenance you beware ... LOL ....bluechicbug she is.

Smile through Empty Glass

Just smile and soak another mask
to fool everyone you can;
You can look in the bottom of that empty glass
with that sad look all night
But you won't find me there.
You can tell your friend
All your hopes and dreams
Share a fake story of bliss
that your heart can't use;
Pretend you are right
where you want to be, if that's what you like
Your minds not aware
You can't feel the pain and guilt
Tainted fumbled thoughts and glazed in store
Just another empty glass
A disease so vile you will despise.

SIMALA

SIMALA….No place is too far to visit for a miracle.

At the Mother Mary Shrine in upper Lindogon in Barangay (village) Simala, Sibonga town, 48 kilometers south of Cebu City, devotees come by truckloads to be there every 13th of the month to hear Mass at 10 a.m. and 3 p.m. or during the weekends at 3 p.m.

Driving to Simala shrine by private car from Cebu City means two to three hours on the road, barring heavy traffic in the outlying towns. Public buses ply the south Cebu route but one would have to get off a corner of the national road to reach upper Lindogon and hail a motorcab or a habal-habal (motorcycle-for-hire) for P20 to take you to the shrine about four kilometers up the mountains.
At the site, one has to cross a foot bridge and walk up a concrete pathway to reach the church, an imposing concrete structure at the top of the mountain. It takes about 10 minutes to reach the peak, which offers a breathtaking view of green slopes and fresh air.
The Marian monks who maintain the shrine have also landscaped the area, which has a mini falls that cascades down a small pool and well-tended gardens.
We ate our lunch on the grass…spreading a mat (smiles) some had their meals in cottages built for visitors. My daughters as well as the adult love to throw coins in a wishing well which features a large bell.

It was my first time to go there, but my kids and parents and sis go there as often as twice a month. I couldn’t come coz it usually falls on working day when they visited the place. I was so amazed and happy to see the castle like church of the miraculous Virgin Mary.

A major purpose of visitors and devotees who go to Simala is to offer their petitions. Blank sheets of paper and pens on which to write their intentions are prepared by the monks for one to drop in a box at the right side of the glass-encased Marian image. Thank you letters are dropped in a box to her left side.

One could not describe the great feeling being in such a magnificent place.

FIESTA SINULOG 2008

The Sinulog is one of the most colorful festivals in Asia today. It is celebrated for nine days with two major activities as highlights--a religious procession on Saturday and grand street parade the next day. It got its name from a ritual dance in honor of the miraculous image of the Santo Niño.

Through the years since 1521, the dance was a small ritual by a few in front of wooden idols or before the Santo Niño. In fact, at the Santo Niño church where the image is consecrated, only the candle vendors could be seen dancing the Sinulog and making offerings.
During the Santo Niño fiesta, which falls on the third Sunday of January, children dressed in moro-moro costumes also dance the Sinulog.
Sto. Niño origin

The origin of the Santo Niño is composed of three main stories. The most widespread version is that the image found by Legaspi's men in 1565, is the same image Magellan gave to Queen Juana in 1521.
The second version states that the image came from China. It supposedly found its way to the Philippines through Chinese traders who dealt with Franciscan missionaries.
The third version is the most interesting of all. It is rooted deeply in the folklore of Cebu. It is told that one day, long before the coming of the Spaniards, a native went out into the sea to fish. He did not catch anything for the better part of the day until finally, he felt a weight at the end of his line. He brought it in only to discover that it was nothing but a piece of wood. This occurred several times until, tired and angry, he decided to keep the stubborn piece of wood in his boat. And viola! Like magic, all the fish swum towards his boat and he went home with a bountiful catch.

The natives of Cebu soon discovered that this piece of wood had other magical powers. They could use it as a scarecrow to keep animals away from their dying crops. In times of drought, they only had to immerse it in the sea and the rains would come. Apparently, this same piece of wood was fashioned into the image of the Santo Niño.


Here’s our pics during the SINULOG Fiesta last January 20, 2008. We went out early to watch the street dancing and the awesome floats being paraded. Rain or shine we really have enjoyed the grandeur of the event.

One Great Friend

She knew my every weakness and the problems i've been dealing. She is the one who knows me, but loves me anyway...She knows all my flaws, yet still want to spend time with me.
I want to effectively tell her how important she really is. It is very difficult to come up with words to accurately explain what kind of an impact a best friend she is to me.

I couldn't remember having a big fight and never dream of having one (grins).
Look at these things we differ yet we get along well everyday.

She loves to jog and run...I just walk and enjoy the gym.
She loves high heeled shoes...I am comfortable with flat shoes (smiles).
She enjoyed watching comedies and love stories while I am thrilled with horror and full of actions.
Oh, she loves to eat pork meat while i lavishly eat the fish (hehehe).
She loves to dance to the music...I enjoyed singing the tunes (smiles).

We have similar views and no so similar one also but a standing respect that held us together.
We easily laugh to silly jokes, we enjoyed hopping to malls and buying DVD's during noon break (laughs). Having our lunch anywhere we want..where our appetite will bring us.
We pampered ourselves to spa, body massage and facial care (lol).

A best friend who is there thru thick and thin. A real person who you will treasure even you'll be apart. A good friend who you can always lean on.

"True friend make is that...we can grow separately without growing apart."

Keep smiling, Cheer UP! For you are ONE of the most wonderful person I ever have.

Family gathering on Christmas Evening

It’s always been our tradition to gather for a feast with my parents, sisters and brother and other relatives at home. The food was fantastic. And diet was out of our mind at this time of day (lol). And we had that tradition that every each year we chose and wear the same color of shirt. This Christmas 2007 is an orange feast. )


After Christmas dinner we sat down and talk about anything that crossed our mind. But sure, the kids were so excited and hyper active and kept on watching the clock when will it strike 12:00am.
I see to it that kids go to bed at 9:00pm to rest so they could wake up and enjoy on Christmas eve and have our Noche Buena at my parents house. We went there for another yummy Noche Buena, had a few program presentations from the kids. Then the most awaited events was the giving of presents to everyone. Which the kids love most lol.


So after opening our Christmas presents, we ate, ate and ate hahaha and enjoyed the fireworks. And remembering the promises that God brought to us through His Son some 2007 years ago.

Chat Kinda Relationship

Cyber -love and chat etiquette does exist? I know it does.
While chatting away you may come across someone who happens to have your same interest. And after talking with this person for some time, you may become attracted to them and vice versa. But let's be careful coz it will just give you a broken heart coz you may never know if the person is honest and sincere. The person can be messing around with someone and totally stabbing you in the back. It may seem great and everything, but something just might be lurking under the surface. Specially if the guy is withholding too much and hiding his identity.

Cyber friends/lovers can pose as "nice," but may hide a beast behind the mask.
One can probably argue that love can never go wrong. But in my experience, it can and can go drastically wrong. Love if you must. But we should bear in mind that loving someone does not guarantee being loved back. We must know that a man who loves you and a man who simply wants to string you along. A man who loves you will pursue you no matter what. He will make intentions known. He will declare NOT deny his affections and identity to you.

So friends, beware of serious chat relationship..it breaks your heart!